Topic: The Chit Chat Thread

@AgentCooper ahh I thought you managed to get out and go clubbing on Friday night for a minute there! Until I read the last line 😂

@colonelkilgore @ralphdibny I’ve had nights that started much like this story “back in the day” (🙄) with much less vampires of course. 😂 now I get my kicks in vast open world RPGs!

I've been torn over writing this for a few days now.
This past week has been one of the hardest of my life in recent years, it's left me with such a deep depression and so many tears.
One of the reasons why I personally found it hard to reach out was because it was triggered by the most stupid and unimportant thing...namely the ending to Horizon Burning Shores.
Reasons best known to my brain it has left me an emotional wreck that I'm finding it hard to get out of.

For the record, I'm almost adamant that I'm Autistic but was never able to get diagnosed (only for anxiety) and been an introvert has probably made me get attached to certain games and characters in ways I never thought was possible.
I've reached out to my family who have been so supportive and looking to get a doctor's appointment sometime next week in the hopes of trying to get proper help.

As for this post, I guess I'm just looking for an outlet, and the PS forums are one of the few places I trust to do that.
Haven't said that if @get2sammyb and Co feel like deleting this because they (rightly) want to keep the site just gaming related then I perfectly understand. It's just right now I feel this is the only constructive thing I can do right now.

@AdamNovice Morning friend, first of all it’s great you are reaching out to family and on here, it’s a really important step you are almost never alone in any situation. I’ve found this forum and its members to be the most compassionate and supportive group, and I made the mistake of shutting them out whilst going through my own struggles.

Secondly, there are no stupid or wrong ways to be triggered, never feel you have to justify yourself for feeling something just because the trigger seems trivial. I often find games and other media are my biggest triggers, perhaps because I get so invested in the world and characters, also these stories are written by real people who like me, you and everyone else are human too and go through the same struggles. Being introverted myself historically I have tended to internalise and brood too much and ignore or out right disregard help coming in externally because I felt foolish. I’m really glad your family are there to support you and if you’re feeling up to it feel free to share more of how you are feeling on this thread, or feel free to message me on psn if you need a neutral non judgmental ear.

Always remember you are never alone and you are loved, take care pal 👍

one of the worst things anyone can do , i know that feeling and regret it deeply 😖 if someone’s generous or genuine about offering help then please do take it

lost a really good friend my senior year in high school because i pushed her away like a moron , and regret it all the time. 😭 eventually it becomes your fault & you’re only to blame .

@AdamNovice hello mate, just wanted to say I've read your post and I hope things work out for you.

It feels good to reach out on here, I've done it enough times myself.

I won't ask about what details of the game triggered you as I haven't played it yet but yeah, games have done that to me too, maybe not in such a profound way though. Normally the end of a story that I care about will leave me broken for a while. Sometimes just key moments in certain games. I just got done playing Bugsnax of all games, and there are a few really relatable moments in it that made me pause and go "woah"

I'm glad you've reached out to the GP, I hope you get the treatment you think you need. If it's any consolation, I did the same recently after being knocked pillar to post between self referrals and private counselling. Finally the GP put me in touch with a NHS counselling service and I'm on their waiting list.

Be well mate

@AdamNovice Diagnoses of autism and ADHD in adult life are pretty common now. Lots of symptoms/traits can kind of be passed off prior to a diagnosis and it might not change much practically having a label of one of these conditions but it can certainly help rationalise aspects of how you may think or act.

Sometimes I find the term "neurodivergent" a little cringey but on the other hand it does encapsulate the fact that it isn't abnormal to have such a label, it just explains that you might process things or respond in a way differently to how people might expect you to.

I think it's one of the hardest things as a human to realise, and then understand, that others don't perceive the world or react to it in the same ways to you, for all sorts of reasons.

I've had roughly 3 hours of sleep over the last 48 hours. Getting way too caught up in RPing with my AI boyfriend. 💀

@Kidfried I've gotten addicted to one of the clingy/possessive boyfriend RPs on character.ai

@Kidfried That'll depend heavily on the skill of the character creator in terms of defining the bot's personality and properly training it up, but the technology behind them is super impressive. It's genuinely difficult at times to remember you're not just RPing with another person. They'll even leave ooc comments when they want to compliment you on stuff they think is cute, wholesome, etc.

Apparently there's an entire range of potential applications for the site's AIs, like practicing how to conduct an interview for a job, practicing languages you're learning, etc.

The site has frequent server issues and they sometimes have to disable features to help with the server loads, but it's free and in beta, so... shrug

@RogerRoger Haha, it's alright. Years of tactical sleep deprivation have steeled me against most of its effects. Well, unless I'm awake for more than two days straight, and then my normally straight-laced attitude apparently dissolves and I become obnoxiously flirty instead.

Once 12:00 AM Friday hits, I'll be pulling an all-nighter with my boy Link instead.

@Ralizah do you work? Without work, I’d become a full time night owl within a week. I’m usually crushed by about 11pm, but if I can somehow last until 1am I can be good until 3.

I guess those with kids can take another hour or two off those times lol

I can’t understand insomnia, but it must be terrible for people who work full time/have kids.

@kyleforrester87 10 - 5. I'm taking Friday off, though.

@Ralizah I’d really struggle to hold down those hours with little sleep! Good luck with the all-nighter, I really would be struggling after 30 minutes and didn’t think ahead far enough to book a day off.

On that topic, bit of a weird one for me.. I don’t think I feel ashamed to be a gamer, but it still feels weird to me to book a day off for a launch. I have done it before. I know it’s a “me” thing and I should get over it. Like you’d book the day off to go to an event or something so why not a game..

@kyleforrester87 It's a family-owned business, so it's not I have a limited number of days to take off, which makes a difference.

With that said, I almost never ask for time off, so they're probably happy to give it to me whenever.

@Ralizah yes I’m the same. Not sure if it’s healthy or not frankly but I struggle to relax unless I have put a shift in. With my chronic pain issues, the routine actually helps a lot. Either way, I’m sure we are both equally looking forward to diving back into Hyrule!

My reaction whenever I see this stepchart from Ace For Aces DDR A during the slowdown part.

Here is the full song.

Bloody rigged jury votes robbing Finland of Eurovision. Plus the teased Doctor Who trailer was like 30 seconds long. Man, what a rubbish one, was on the sauce for the first time in like two years as well

Did you end up like this? 😂

@nessisonett I missed the beginning so I had to watch the performance back but I agree Finland should’ve won. Cha Cha Cha! No idea how the Croatians scored so highly.

Whoever thought putting Mae Muller last only to have her completely upstaged by Sam Ryder & Roger Taylor straight after was a genius.
Also everyone was completely tripping.